30 Days of Dominance
Day 13 – Is sexual availability, having your submissive partner/s sexually available to you at any time and in any manner you choose, part of your expectations as a Dominant? Why or why not? Are there acceptable limits to this? If so, what are they?
I admit that my knowledge on other types of dynamics is limited, but some of these questions are baffling.
Uh, yeah, I expect them to be sexually available.
Why? Because that’s how it works.
Yes, of course there are acceptable limits. It is not like I’d expect them to be available if they were in the hospital or something. I also realize there are times when responsibilities take precedence over my sexual urges — kids and careers are important.
Reasons such as, I’ve had a long day, there’s a game on TV, my knees hurt, I’ve only been asleep for 3 hours and my body hurts from you using me, I’m hungry, or if I don’t have the coffee made in 10 minutes I will get punished, are not acceptable in my opinion.